I used to get them lightened and shot peened buy a guy here in SoCal at Excello plating, but he's long retired now. This is an example of the ones he did for me. It's clearly overkill in terms of benefit vs. labor time, but they are lovely to look at. Steve Maney used to have a guy who did a nice job of lightening rocker arms, but I don't know if he is still available.
Ken