Agreed, the bolts in the R&R rods are 190,000 psi UTS, but the rod material is only 90,000 psi. The Carrillo rod material is 195,000 psi UTS, and their bolts are 220,000 psi UTS (H-11 tool steel). For additional cost they will provide bolts in a multiphase material at 285,000 psi UTS. We could argue about whether you need all that for a Norton, but there's no real argument about which is stronger and has more long term durability under hard use.
I think what bothers me about the R&R rods is this statement on their web site
"Unlike a forging in which the aluminum is literally pounded into the shape of a rod, our material is cold worked, forced through a die at extreme pressures, to form the billets from which the aluminum rods are CNC'ed from. This work hardening builds the strength, grain structure, elasticity, and general characteristics that makes our aluminum rods superior to common forgings. Our alloy is then further artificially aged and heat treated, then stress relieved though additional manufacturing processes."
I think that is a bit misleading. The usual benefit claimed for machining from a forging is that the grain flow is in the shape of the final product, so you're not cutting across the grain as much in machining as when starting from a billet. I'm willing to accept that R&R use a very high quality material for their billet, but that doesn't make it as good as or better than a good forging in similar material.
Let me insert a little disclaimer here. I've had great luck with stock Commando rods in both street and race bikes. In the race bikes I had them shot peened and regularly checked for cracks. I also check for cracks before I use them in a street bike engine. I've never broken a stock Commando rod, but have retired one or two with cracks around the pin end. But those were from regularly flogged race bikes. I have no hesitation to use stock rods in a street bike engine. That's what I ran in my 920 engine on nitrous last year at Bonneville, and they still look good. Still, I'm going with Carrillos for the next race build. One less thing to worry about.
Ken