My sweetie just goes for the ride, she understands me to well, leaves me alone when I am up in the shed or doing things whether working on the bikes or doing other things or out riding with the mates to have drinks with the mates, she don't have much say in what I do but she enjoys the things we do together and she can't complain about all the things I had done around the house or for her, yes we have our moments as any normal folks do, but she also know if I had to choose between her or the bikes, her bags would be packed before she knew what hit her and she knows that.
When I purposed to her I laid the rules down straight away about the bikes, my own space and freedom to go at short notice on the bikes or out bush in the 4x4, sometimes we both need that break from everyday life and she understands that, she is a good woman but she drives me nuts sometimes, but I am sure I do the same to her.
All my friends think I am lucky to have such a understanding wife as they could never get away with what I do with their wives, but then I say to them try living with her, but then she has to put up with a lot from me, it just works for us even in bad times, putting up with the good, the bad and all our own bad habits, its all about life and putting trust in each other, and when I do go away she never ask what I be getting up to, just be safe, don't drink to much and never drive when pissed, but she knows I don't do that, well drink driving anyway.
Ashley