I get mines from RGM (where I get most of my parts) but after the last 2 sets involved mega effort to get the wheel on (and off) I decided I'd try Andover for the next set in the hope they are different. If they come from Andover they shouldn't be loose packed, they should be in a sealed bag with the Genuine card insert. I remember replacing these years ago before "new" parts were being manufactured and can never remember them being a problem then.
Keith1069 seems to confirm the Andover ones may be different from Fair Spares.
Problem is you never know who's telling the truth, Both Les Emery at Fair Spares and Rodger Myers at RGM say they actually sell parts and share the cost of batches of parts with Andover, Andover of course dispute this!
All I know is I've tried the rest so it'll be Andover ones next and if they are the same I'll let them know they are sh*t. I always feel with RGM that the parts are so cheap that if you get a less than perfect fit then so what, make things fit! However I've had it with trying to make these little bits of plastic work easily first time!