I put on a pair of bronze nuts from Walridge on in the spring. Dressed the treads with a light coat of Permatex Ultra Copper (as found in another thread in this forum) and invested in an Exhaust Nut Wrench. Put them on and tightened them up and then took few laps around the neighbourhood to get things nice and hot and then retightened them real good. They haven't moved since. I've stopped carrying the wrench around with me now, but still check them when I get home from a ride.
I have an adapter that lets me use a torque wrench.
I put anti-sieze on the threads.
Re-tighten to about 80 ft-lbs after first ride.
I then mark both the nut and on head with permanent marker.
At a glance I can see if there has been any movement bettween the marks.
After about 4,000 miles I've yet to have a nut loosen.
Bob