"ts a known taboo to use factory lock tabs or safety wire long term as they don't help hold torque fixed just keep em from coming off on the fly, "
Well, I can't agree with all the words of that statement and neither would the aviation industry or the various racing organizations. Safety wire is used for precisely that purpose - to ensure a properly torqued fitting stays that way under the stress of vibration.
However, I do agree that safety wire will not keep a specific torque on a fitting that has a gasket that can further "crush" in operation - like the exhaust fitting, especially if multiple gaskets are used. Basically , I agree with both techniques with the exhaust. Tighten them as noted - engine hot, plenty of torque and then safety wire the nuts. I have had loctited (both blue and red) items fail on the Commando. Never had a safety wired fitting do so and can't see how it is possible that it could. Though if the fitting loosens, the safety wire will have to break which is visually obvious.
The only disadvantage to SW is the fact that it takes additional time to break/remake a fitting and, of course, if not already done, you have to drill the fasteners to accept the wire.
Oh...one other disadvantage: you have to be very careful to pick up any pieces of safety wire after attaching/cutting or removing. The safety wire bits seem to gravitate toward tires!

Good safety wire pliers have a rubbery insert that holds onto wire bits as you cut so little pieces don't drop on the floor.