This is probably a bit like an oil thread but...
I never use any compound on the threads - my rationale being if the lube helps it tighten, it'll also help it loosen.
I have a two foot length of pipe that fits nicely over the rose spanner. For final tightening I ensure the head is good and warm then apply tightening pressure with the engine running.
Vibes plus heat seems to work - they stay tight.
I also check for looseness (hot or cold) every month or so, just in case.
I never lube spark plugs either - same reason
Cheers