OK, I really didn't mean to start a war! Thanks to all of you for some great suggestions. Good news... the threads were not stripped so i was able to retighten. I got it just over hand tight when cold, then warmed it up for about 5 minutes and tightened some more, took a 10 minute ride and while still running, tightened a little more. i was able to use the "C"-spanner from the original tool kit to tighten the fin nut.
Thanks again!
Thanks again!