I think a 14ah battery is as small as you should go with lights on all time if you need to make room. The 3 phase setup will keep it topped of nicely.
I feel the rule of thumb should be a battery as equal to or slightly smaller than the AH output of the stator.
I know this does not apply to you but I have a 14ah LI battery but I run a mag that is not require a battery. The battery and the 200 watt single phase system is all for the lights and the like. I mention this because the small batteries are still under some scrutiny and the AGM or LeadAcid are very robust, priced right, easy to replace, and proven.
Now, if money is not an issue then you can get a High AH LiPO, feed it well with the 3 phase, and have plenty of room left over.
A 14AH Lead acid is a good choice though.