I've done a bit of damper testing in the past, and still more to come in the future... The problems with suspension are best stated that there are 2 qualities.
1)Softness of ride- how well the movement of the forks absorb the terrain irregularities
2)Quality of handling performance- That has to do with how much the suspension reduces the force input to the chassis and maintains the traction of the tires
Unfortunately, the extremes of 2 qualities can not be achieved at the same time with springs and hydraulics. On a race track, you don't expect a highly irregular surface, so you set up for quickest handling and maximum traction for obvious reasons.
On the public roads there's more of a need to trade that responsiveness for a more forgiving ride. That's one of the reasons after adapting CBR600F4I suspension with dual circuit damper valves to my commando, the settings for public roads are still a compromise of softness for better handling and visa versa. You're not going to get both extremes at the same time. The softer you make your suspension the more ponderous and vague your bike will feel. The more responsive you make your bike's handling, the stiffer it will feel...
When I started my modification, I thought the dual circuit valving would give me both extremes at the same time. Good crisp handling on high quality road surfaces and soft responding suspension for pot hole ridden roads...... doesn't happen like that... The best you can do is trade a little bit of handling quality for a bit more forgiving ride on bumpy roads. Or, if you ride on horrible roads mostly set up your suspension for comfort instead of handling performance...
The design of early suspension was that fluid viscosity and spring choice were your only levers of adjustment. There are certainly other ways to make adjustments like progressive springs, shim stack valves, and externally adjustable low speed valving to try to give the best of both worlds. I think you can get a little better with high tech suspension, but spring choice doesn't work the same way as dual circuit valving, so when you chose a spring, you chose your range of adjustment..... a super soft spring will never give you good handling and a super stiff spring will never give you a soft ride......
You may get the hydraulic part worked out by changing the hole size,... but you might try a softer spring too. There's a lot of springs for sale cheaply on ebay. I tried a few and I also bought a race spring from race tech to test (for $150. what a waste of money) The race spring was 2 springs softer than recommended for my weight and it was still too stiff. Softer springs made the bike handling slower, but softer to ride. I think I settled on a .67kg/mm spring for my dampers and the stock commando spring I'm told is somewhere around .63kg/mm