There's been a lot of disussions about "scar tests" on auto racing forums...Many well experienced builders dismiss it as have no relevence to operating conditions inside the engine...And many lower rated "scar test" oils perform very well in actual running engines...
To each his own beliefs...
There may be just about as many “scar tests” as there are motor oils and depending on which test and the purpose of said test (to sell my product, my additive, my oil, etc) I’m certain you are correct that “scar test” results may be incongruent with actual durability of components in an engine. If someone were attempting to separate the wheat from the chaff in the vast ocean of “scar test” results, you’d likely start by eliminating those that were attempting to tie the sale of some product to the test results. In a similar vein, you’d certainly want an independent testing laboratory with no dog in the fight performing the test, e.g., The Norton Motorcycle Machine Shop. Then you’d want to scrutinize the test to assess whether it employed test conditions that replicated or at least related to some known application of interest, e.g., a flat tappet cam in a Norton engine. Upon further scrutiny if you found that the test actually employed a Norton lifter of known hardness running on a race of known hardness over a range of forces encountered in the subject engine, this should also be encouraging. And finally if you dug deeper and discovered more details of the test apparatus, such as…
Test employed a fully automated computer-controlled system
Test was well instrumented with thermocouples fit to the tappet body and oil bath that were monitored continuously
Test was performed over a wide range of realistic and carefully controlled oil temperature (220-320F)
Test employed a temperature controlled oil bath with both heating and cooling capabilities where both parameters were monitored continuously to provide a means of assessing the heat flow into the oil from the work performed at the tappet/test race interface
Test continuously monitored motor load to assess friction at the tappet/test race interface
And then considering all the foregoing, one might at a minimum conclude that not all “scar tests” are quite the same. But of course in the final analysis I couldn’t agree with your statement more, i.e., “to each his own beliefs...”