Perhaps this is a far out suggestion. Re-torque the head bolts after months, not miles.
This suggestion is based on purely theoretical considerations, not direct experience. Many materials have a Time-Temperature-Load envelope in which plastic deformation occurs, also called creep. I do not know for sure if copper head gaskets fall into the envelope, but it is a possibility.
Here is an example of plastic deformation that many may be familiar with. If one tins (applies solder) to a stranded copper wire, then crimps a terminal on that wire, or inserts it into a terminal block using a screw to secure the wire, I guarantee that wire will easily pull out of the terminal after several months. I have personally seen it happen on several occasions. The soft solder deforms under the load over time, which in the case of solder is a few months.
I would think (again from theory, not experience) copper has a similar behavior, I just do not know off the top of my head if the temperatures at the head gasket are within that envelope wherein deformation occurs. If plastic deformation is the culprit, re-torquing will work harden the copper and eventually no further deformation should occur.
FWIW, I recently checked the torque on my Atlas head. It has been many years since the head was off. I found every bolt and nut was loose.
Slick